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BDSM as a psychosexual culture implies the division of people into Top and Bottom.

 

The Top is called the dominant partner (dominant). He plays the role of a master and a sadist, taking charge of the Lower. The depth of the performance of the role of the top can be different, and it depends on the personal preferences of the partners.

 

But at the same time, no matter how strange it may sound, being a master is much harder than being a Bottom.

 

The main difficulty of the role of the dominant in BDSM is the ability to combine the care of a loving person with the rigidity of a dictator, because it is in the unshakable authority of the Top over the Bottom that the meaning of BDSM relationships lies.

 

The top should not doubt the correctness of his actions, compromise with the submissive or allow him to feel equal with himself. The lower one, striving to obey and execute the commands of an imperious master, will remain disappointed if his upper one shows weakness of character and follows his lead.

 

A good dominant must be a sensitive psychologist and a talented actor. The degree of satisfaction of the Bottom depends on how competently the Top one manages his power, using the "carrot and stick" in time. And the ability to get used to the image helps partners to immerse themselves in this process, abstracting from everyday life. This is especially important when people in real life play completely different social roles and take a break from the routine with the help of BDSM sex.

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