An erotic role-playing game in which the partners pretend to be "older" or "younger". Most often, people of mature age, prone to submission, take the role of "children", young people who prefer to dominate, portray "senior". It is often one of the components of various role-playing games, for example, in a teacher and a student.
A way of obtaining pleasure in which orgasm is achieved by causing pain to a sexual partner or in connection with pain caused by a sexual partner.
Animal role-playing games in which one partner plays the role of an animal and the other is the owner or trainer. Most often in games, people are dogs (cats) (Dog Play) or horses (Pony Play). This practice has nothing to do with bestiality.
Strangulation, an extreme BDSM practice characterized by strangulation of a partner. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS! Can only be performed by an Top with the necessary medical knowledge and experience.
Torture with the use of blows to the male genitals, squeezing, twisting, pulling, tying them. Characteristic of female dominance.
An ambiguous abbreviation describing the type of sexual relations of the "dominance - submission" type on a voluntary basis. It consists of three main areas, which, as a rule, are combined in different pairs in different proportions: B&D (Bondage&Discipline), D&S (Dominance&Submission), S&M (Sadism&Masochism).
A cage made of wood or metal, of the most diverse type and size (usually 1.5x1.5 m). They are used, both in the practices of the BD, as a variant of bondage, and also in the DS, as a punishment for the Bottom. Also used in training and playing with animals. Usually an integral part of the BDSM room.
The totality of all components of thematic relationships, based on an erotic exchange of power and other forms of sexual relations, involving role-playing games of domination and submission, sadism, masochism, bondage and discipline, any kind of fetish.
A room equipped with an appropriate set of BDSM paraphernalia and designed for thematic sessions.
Thematic practices conducted in conjunction with satanic rituals. Often just to create an appropriately dark, intimidating atmosphere for the session.
Impacts in which blood appears on the body of the lower one (when playing with a knife, for example). Usually is Taboo. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!
The general name for all kinds of changes in the human body. For example, piercing, scarring, tattooing.
Sexual practice, which consists in depriving one partner (Top) of another (Bottom) of one or another degree of physical mobility and freedom of action in order to obtain psychosexual and / or aesthetic satisfaction. It is carried out with the help of ropes, belts and bondage devices.
Fundamental aspects of BDSM that share conceptual commonalities and are therefore considered together.
Popular bondage device. It is a wide leather, rubber or latex bag, tapering to the bottom. The sleeve is put on the limbs brought together at the back and tightened with lacing or a zipper.
Bottom (bottom, slave, submissive, sub)
1) In the context of the Theme - a submissive partner, giving himself into the hands of the Master
2) Designation of the role in the BDSM scene - passive or submissive partner.
The image on the body of the lower certain sign, symbolizing something, for example, belonging to the Theme or the Top by tattooing, scarring, cauterization or in another way.
Type of erotic games with temporary suffocation of a partner: blocking oxygen with the help of gas masks and special masks, clamping the carotid artery, squeezing the neck with hands or a rope, hanging by the neck, etc. It is believed that the lack of oxygen in the brain increases the sexual pleasure of BDSM exposure. Indeed, the lack of blood and oxygen can cause some hallucinations. A very limited proportion of people are able to experience orgasm only with the use of breath control.
A group of actions based on the external use of skin-irritating chemical compounds that are contained in food products. Used - salt, pepper, soda, vinegar, mustard, ginger, carbonated drinks, etc.
CBT is also understood as a class of devices united by the common name "chastity belts", as well as various games with the genitals associated with the use of these belts, which prevent sexual intercourse and masturbation.
Structurally, it is an ordinary chair with fixators for the arms and legs of the partner being bound (sometimes also the torso and / or neck). Like crosses, most often made of wood, it can be sheathed with leather or leatherette. In some cases (especially in the field of medical fetishism), a gynecological chair is used.
A special device worn on the genitals of men and women to prevent sexual intercourse (fundamentally different designs for different sexes). It looks quite original, unusual and erotic device.
1) a device in the form of a round ring made of metal, leather, plastic, worn around the Bottom's neck and equipped with a lock. It is used for tying, attaching it to something, as an element of a prefabricated set of bondage for the body (for example, bondage consisting of handcuffs, shackles and a collar interconnected by chains), as a control element for the lower one (the Top one can pull the Bottom one by the leash of the collar, walk him)
2) Attribute of the power of the Top over the lower. It is often used in lifestyle, as a symbol of the belonging of a slave to her master, or during a thematic session, as if emphasizing that the girl is a slave of the Master.
BDSM play with a variety of costumes and roles. For example, the game of the sultan and the concubine - respectively, a girl in an oriental costume, a man in a sultan's costume.
A variant of oral sex, when the penis is inserted into the partner's mouth and throat to the full length, without causing vomiting. Usually used in games with forced sex.
BDSM is a practice aimed at turning a person into a weak-willed slave, an inanimate object, for example, into a footstool, a table, or into an animal.
1) A kind of sadism, characterized by abuse by teachers and educators of their official position and bullying of students
2) Sadomaso plays in which one of the partners plays the role of a teacher and the other is a student
A controversial term that, as it were, replaces the term BDSM. After all, the topic usually always has dominance and submission. Therefore, its interpretation has departed from the original exact translation and in a general sense means the transfer of power. Those. it is a set of different behaviors, customs and practices related to the transfer of power over one partner to another in an erotic, session or lifestyle context. The emphasis in this type of relationship is more on psychological dominance and discipline.
1) Certain restrictions in the behavior of the lower partner due to the observance of the rules established by the Top partner. Usually, non-compliance or poor compliance with the rules entails penalties.
2) Common name of games D/S
Subjugating (morally and/or physically) his session partner. Usually characteristic of D/S relationships. Sometimes the word is used to denote the character of a person - dominant, alpha male.
An unusual state experienced by a dominant partner during a BDSM scene, described as transcendental.
EXTREMELY DANGEROUS! direction in the Theme, which consists in the absence of the limits of the physical power of the Top over the submissive partner (with his consent), which provokes the Upper partner to risky experiments and dangerous practices. Also, extreme games include games with breathing, games with a knife and blood - one of the more dangerous practices.
BDSM practice with the use of electric shock that is safe for the body. As a rule, such an impact causes pleasure or excitement in a partner. In our country, one should not resort to this method, since it is difficult to purchase devices specially designed for this.
The use of open flames from torches, candles, torches, lighters, etc. during the “action” is a rather rare and exotic type of SM practice due to the presence of a certain risk of injury and subconscious fear. Requires special precautions and high individual tolerance of the Bottom partner. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!
Sitting of the Top partner on the face of the Bottom, usually in conjunction with oral sex. The practice is typical for women against men.
1) Erotic attraction to any objects, materials, body parts, etc., not directly related to sexual intercourse. Common BDSM fetishes include: shoe fetish, leather fetish
2) getting sexual arousal and pleasure from some object or some part of the body that is not directly erogenous. For example, foot fetishism, medical fetishism
The introduction of the hand, any object into the vagina or anus of the partner. There is also double fisting in BDSM, when objects are introduced simultaneously into the anus and vagina.
1) The act of flogging a partner with his prior consent using a whip, rod and other shock devices
2) A kind of masochism - the occurrence of sexual arousal during spanking. It can be active (pleasure in spanking others) and passive (pleasure in one's own pain)
Role-playing game associated with the substitution of sexes, one or both partners. Often accompanied by dressing up.
Role-playing games based on the Gorean series of short stories by John Norman. In which the emphasis is on D / S and B / D relationships between men and women within a whole civilization.
Games in which the urine of a partner is a fetish, one of them pisses on the other, or makes her drink.
A design for fixing a person, a kind of analogue of the "horse" sports equipment. It is used, as a rule, for fixation during flagellation.
1) A set of belts and rings connected together in the form of a mesh, which is put on the body and adjusted to the size with the help of locks. Usually just a decorative erotic element
2) A set of harness for the face and body in pony play
Almost vanilla practice, in which different parts of the lower body are affected by pieces of ice or drops, splashes of cold water. It is a kind of opposite of playing with wax.
Games with sharp objects (knives, razors, needles). They usually leave light cuts and scratches on the skin. Usually Taboo for most topics. EXTREMELY DANGEROUS!
Permanent D / S relations (24 hours a day, 7 days a week), as a rule, entering into them, partners constantly live with each other and run a common household.
1) A dominant who has a slave at his full disposal (sometimes even on a contract basis)
2) The word is used as the address of a slave to the Master
3) One of the names of the dominant partner is men
1) The use of medical paraphernalia (dilators, medical clothing, enemas, heating pads, Wartenberg wheel, etc.)
2) General styling of a BDSM session for some medical manipulations (for example, urological examination, installation of an enema, catheter)
3) A kind of fetish in which sexual satisfaction comes as a result of a role-playing game that reproduces one or another medical practice
Those who play a leading role are usually called "Up", "Top", "Master", and those who obey - "bottom", "slave", "sub"
Swaddling the human body, like mummies. It is performed with bandages, adhesive tape, special cuts of material. A subsection of mummification can be considered bondage using a vacuum bed or a latex bag, when a person is placed in a closed bag and the air is pumped out of it with a vacuum cleaner. A person can only breathe through a tube. Often BDSM mummification is an independent practice, i.e. after the process is completed the person is left alone with his thoughts, desires and fears.
Managing the orgasm of the bottom. For example, the prohibition of obtaining an orgasm, learning to cum on command, the use of chastity belts to restrict access to the genitals. The term is also applicable when using BDSM vibrators.
Included in the concept of sexual perversion, when a person experiences sexual attraction to objects, objects, situations or people, attraction to which is not included in the concept of normal sexual attraction, which can cause negative consequences for the objects of desire.
A type of heterosexual sex in which a woman, using a dildo or strapon, penetrates a man's anus.
Animal role-playing games in which one partner plays the role of an animal and the other is the owner or trainer. Most often in games, people are dogs (cats) (Dog Play) or horses (Pony Play). This practice has nothing to do with bestiality.
An alternative term describing BDSM relationships, understood as the transfer of power over oneself to a partner who agrees to accept it. Widely used in the USA. Often pronounced as erotic power exchange - emphasizing the erotic aspect of this relationship. Also used in the aspect of describing the vanilla relationship of vanilla BDSM.
Sexual intercourse performed as if against the will of a woman (or a man, if we are talking about female dominance). The lower one can resist, shout "No, don't", try to escape. But in fact, he wants sex to be just that - forced and violent, unbridled and violent. Often found in vanilla couples, with no other indications of Theme. In the same topic, it is usually accompanied by the bondage of the bottom.
Obtaining satisfaction or sexual pleasure by inflicting physical or moral pain on the lower partner.
Complete or partial restriction of the ability of the Bottom (Sub) to use his senses - hearing, sight, smell or touch. Deprivation is characterized by an increase in sexual arousal, sensuality and the thrill of a BDSM session.
A class of mechanical automated devices that allow offline to carry out various manipulations with the Bottom.
1) A partner in a subordinate role belonging to the Master (Mistress). The name is typical for the relationship "Lifestyle" and D/S
2) A partner who submits during the session, who has fully transferred all rights to himself to the Top
A special state of euphoria in the lower, resulting from the release of endorphins during BDSM activities.
It is a wooden or metal device with holes for the neck, arms and legs in various combinations. Often the inner surface in contact with the skin is sheathed with leather or leatherette. Rigidly limits the mobility of the limbs and increases the inconvenience of the lower, including due to significant weight. Private attribute in the BDSM room.
Pre-agreed words with the help of which the lower partner can influence the intensity of the upper partner's influence on him during the session, or even interrupt it. A stop word can also be a certain object, dropping which, the lower partner will make it clear that he can no longer endure.
Latex, plastic, rubber, glass, metal copy of the male penis, consisting of panty straps (harnesses) and a nozzle in the form of the dildo itself.
A special form of bondage in which the bound body is suspended in "free flight". Requires great skill and physical strength from the Top in order to avoid causing harm to health (possible circulatory or respiratory failure).
A person who tends to change the roles of the bottom and top in different scenes or from session to session depending on the mood or partner and enjoys both his bottom and top roles. Switch in BDSM is very common.
Influences based on the use of cold or heat. Ice, cold water, cold steel can be used, as well as hot objects and even open flames.
Tickling, a kind of fetish in which one of the partners tickles the other, and the other is usually bound and cannot interfere with him.
1) In the context of BDSM, a person who has gained power over a partner with his consent
2) A partner who plays any active dominant role in BDSM
1) An erotic role-playing game in which the Top one is the trainer, the subordinate is the animal being trained: usually a pony, but there are various variations, such as a cat, etc.
2) Training
Foot trampling. Walking on the lower partner barefoot or in high heels. Trampling of lower men by women in femdom is generally widespread.
A large-sized bondage device in which the partner is fixed by pumping air out of a latex bag stretched over a frame.
Influences by communication, voice. Giving orders to the bottom or psi dominance. Manipulation of the behavior of the bottom by changing the voice intonations.
A medical instrument invented by Dr. R. Wartenberg to test nerve irritation and used in neuropathology. It is a handle on which a wheel of small diameter is fixed, along the rim of which there are sharp spikes. As a rule, it is made of stainless steel and has 18 centimeters in length. Wheel diameter 15-20 mm. It is used in the practice of medfetish.
The use of melted candle wax, which is dripped onto the bottom's body. Quite safe and at the same time bright in feeling practice.
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