Psychologists have proven that every person is more or less prone to violence. It is sexual games, with the use of one or another sadomasochistic BDSM paraphernalia, whips, gags, handcuffs, etc., that make it possible to realize these tendencies in a safe form. With the help of such toys, a person can get sexual pleasure without feeling any guilt. And what could be better than to realize your fantasies in a harmless game? At the same time, it is necessary that BDSM paraphernalia is always at hand.
If you received from your partner the desired “Yes! Let's! I think it's interesting" and discussed with him what kind of interaction is attractive for both of you, the question arises of which tools to use. For the first experience, there are enough improvised items: a palm, a belt, a scarf to blindfold. And the main tool in the DB and DS is the voice and behavior of the top.
When it becomes more or less clear that the experiment was a success, you can acquire special devices - objects designed for physical impact on a partner, spanking and fixation. Which one to buy first?
We would suggest dividing BDSM devices into two types:
● for fixation (handcuffs, bondage, costumes, large-sized devices)
● for various effects (whips, gags, candles, electrical stimulators, etc.)
Obviously, you should not buy very cheap accessories: you will lose both the aesthetic side of BDSM and the sensations. But ordering, for example, a one and a half meter whip from a well-known master is at first a senseless and even dangerous undertaking. Spanking with such devices is possible only after the hand is stuffed, and most often you can do without such difficulties.
Devices of the first choice should be solid, but inexpensive, and most importantly, easily manageable. Well, you can generally start with minimal costs, if you have a tie and scented candles on hand ... they gave you a hint, then you yourself :)
BDSM is not torture and torment. This is one of the many options for interaction between people, which, with the right approach, can become a way of life, entertainment or a way to diversify intimate life.
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