The meaning of the acronym BDSM is known to many, but if you suddenly are not one of them and rely only on the associations associated with these four letters, and what they write about them on the Internet, we will repeat. BDSM stands for "bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism" (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism). Do not squint warily - everything is far from being as scary as it seems.
BDSM is characterized by a certain behavior of partners with each other, including all of the above words, depending on sexual desires and fantasies and, of course, experience and practice. In addition to the psychological mood and specific elements of the game, sex accessories like handcuffs, whips, chains, scarves, bondage (and many other interesting toys) are used. You can also find blindfolds and gags that enhance the effect and arousal of the partner. If the partner’s limbs are tied or tied to something, this is bondage, and there is room for creative people to roam, because in the real BDSM culture, very much attention is paid to bondage: special techniques, rope material and what pleasure each of the partners can get at the time of linking.
As for sadism and masochism, these are physical manifestations of power and submission. For those unfamiliar with the pleasure to be found in BDSM culture, the concepts of BDSM can seem creepy and misunderstood. In sadomasochism, the main aspects are infliction of pain and humiliation, and the name itself comes from the names of two writers, Marquis de Sade and Leopold von Schecher-Masoch, who are very familiar to everyone with their works. It was they who wrote about the perverted pleasure that pain brings. So instead of Fifty Shades of Grey, it’s better to get acquainted with their works, if you’re really interested in what ordinary people find in sadomasochism.
Sadomasochism can be characterized as just rough sex, as well as more brutal things like strangulation, rough spanking with both hands and a whip, and even the use of needles.
In other words, the BDSM culture is much more developed than the vast majority of people who are guided only by the associations that the words evoke and are not even interested in how this happens in elementary porn films imagine. Today, there are masters and instructors who are ready to initiate those who wish into the art of domination and submission so that partners diversify their sex life, discover something new, while remaining in physical and psychological safety.
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