Dominance in BDSM is a variant of thematic relationships, which is based on the voluntary submission of one partner to the power of another. Actually, the transfer of power takes place (and is considered correct and voluntary) in the presence and implementation of an appropriate agreement between partners, one of which acts as a dominant (House, Master, Top), and the other as a subordinate (slave, submissive, bottom). The dominant is endowed with the right to make all decisions for the partner, and he must unquestioningly follow all his instructions.
An indispensable requirement in the transfer of power in such relationships is the awareness of the transfer of power, in which all fundamental and prudent safety standards and principles of BDSM are observed.
The main goal of the beginning, formation and development of such relationships is to enjoy the game according to the "dominant - submissive" scenario.
Domination is, for the most part, a set of psychological and verbal influences, rather than physical ones. So, we note that the essence of any scenario (game) of dominance in BDSM initially lies in the leading, superior status of one partner in relation to the other, which this status voluntarily recognizes and accepts, and the limits of such status are determined solely by the desires of both participants and are subject to discussion before entry into such relationships. Those. all those tasks that you have prepared for your Bottom during the game must be discussed with him in advance and adjusted, taking into account his preferences too. This advice mainly applies to those couples who are just entering the not-so-easy path of erotic relationships with the transfer of power. Partners who have been together for a long time usually know each other's preferences.
There is an option that also provides for unlimited dominance - with such a development of relations, the Dominant is allowed to carry out any actions that fantasy is capable of, in relation to the submissive, of course, in compliance with all safety standards and a sober understanding of each of the influences. By itself, any extremes should be limited to certain limits, which are regulated by the criminal code and the principle of prudence.
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