Rape is a serious crime that has nothing to do with sex, it is a way in which someone tries to gain power by bending the victim to their will. This is a power game for those who, perhaps feeling deprived of their own power, want to feel powerful in the act of rape. This is a terrible act that devastates the victim, be it a woman or a man.
Interestingly, rape remains a fairly common fantasy among women. I am not saying that women who have such fantasies or thoughts actually desire to be raped. Usually these women want to feel helpless, subservient, and in some way, such a scenario relieves them of the responsibility of enjoying the sexual act that is "forced" on them. But they want it in a safe way, with a partner they know for sure won't cause significant harm.
Such fantasies play a role in BDSM as well. Many see this as one of the darker sides of BDSM. However, quite a few people realize fantasies of consensual rape with their partners.
For some, the realization of such a fantasy is a way to regain a sense of their own strength and self-confidence, lost as a result of a real rape in the past, BDSM theory (this is not a treatment that should be recommended, but one can understand the motive for such an act). Others are excited by the scene of helplessness and subordination of a woman to a man during a rape. If you consciously approach such an action, it will be safe.
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