Velvet (or vanilla) BDSM is a kind of erotic game with elements of bondage, domination and sadomasochism, designed for a traditional couple who crave variety in sex. It performs the function of a love foreplay, a kind of bed fun with the use of handcuffs, silk bandages, tickling whips. By the way, in ordinary BDSM practices, sex is far from always present, and this is how they differ from velvet ones.
What is the seductive power of BDSM? Unusual sexual subculture to the uninitiated seems mysterious and mystical, almost like esotericism or Freemasonry. But if you dig deep, the basics of BDSM can be found everywhere, in any form of social communication. For domination and submission are inherent in human nature, no matter how zealously liberals and feminists may argue the opposite.
BDSM in bed gives you a chance to realize inaccessible, but desirable roles and allows you to throw out all the negativity accumulated during the day in the game. Therefore, restrained BDSM is more useful than harmful. The main thing is to use it within reasonable limits.
Those couples who want to apply the theme of vanilla BDSM for the first time are advised not to rush and gradually build up personal knowledge in the world of hard sex. At the first meeting, you should not put on latex leggings, wigs, heels, write scripts, paint words and scenes in the form of a performance with rape and punishment. Partners will feel awkward and confused. In a BDSM couple, someone takes a leading role, while someone remains a follower or a BDSM submissive. He must lead his partner to new BDSM discoveries carefully, step by step. A few simple tricks will add spice to the routine of sexual life, gradually realizing vanilla BDSM into sexual relations.
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