When partners begin to get closer and trust each other so much that they transfer their BDSM relationship to real life. This is called the lifestyle or 24/7 existence of the Dominant and the Submissive. And no one leaves these roles. This again requires a special contract and voluntary consent.
⚠︎ Important! A sub in a session can dominate in real life and not want such a subordinate relationship at all all the time. The principle of voluntariness is always present here, otherwise the situation turns into the sphere of severe psychological pressure or even domestic violence.
In addition to the basic rules of the community to which people in a DS relationship adjoin, there is also a kind of agreement between the Submissive and the Dominant. Of course, this is not a document that has any legal force, but some conditions must be spelled out in it:
● Link symbol. Very often, a symbol of the union of Top and a slave is some kind of common tattoo, piercing, possibly a brand or a special bracelet, collar. This is an attribute of a certain commonality of this tandem, allowing the BDSM submissive to feel great affection for the Dominant even outside the session, and the Dominant to maintain his influence.
● Responsibilities Dominant and Sub. In the contract, you need to clearly discuss all the obligations in relation to your partner. Feel free to express your needs, discuss everything you need on the shore, and not during the session. Perhaps your Dominant does not want to communicate outside the Topic, or vice versa, he is ready to give tasks to his Sub in real life.
● List of taboos and Wishlist. Further, both sides give a clear list of prohibited things and the desires that they pursue, entering into thematic relationships. Desires may not coincide, but even before creating a Dom-Sub couple, you need to come to a common denominator so that no one's rights are infringed during the sessions.
● Trust from the partner. Both parties to the contract must comply with it. The theme is an amazing world built on relationships and full trust of partners. Very often, quite strong unions are created in BDSM, much stronger than in real life, because both participants absolutely clearly know all the boundaries, prohibitions and understand that it is unacceptable not to trust a partner and treat the contract carelessly. After all, you can not only harm your Sub morally, but also physically.
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